Most times, it’s easy to forget that the most trustworthy guide to finding a godly husband is the Word of God, especially when we find ourselves in a world filled with dating apps, relationship advice columns, and endless opinions on what makes a man “husband material.”
The Bible doesn’t hand us a modern dating blueprint—but it does give us spiritual principles, godly wisdom, and timeless truths about what kind of man to look for, how to wait well, and how to trust God with our desires.
Finding a husband is not about settling for who’s available; it’s about aligning your heart with God so He can lead you to someone who reflects His heart.
Too often, we’re tempted to chase love instead of cultivating the kind of life that attracts the right kind of love.
Scripture teaches us that while beauty fades and charm is deceptive, a man who fears the Lord is to be praised—and pursued by God on your behalf.
These 34 verses are not just about relationships; they’re about learning how to live with purpose, discernment, and faith so that when the time is right, love finds you in the will of God.
34 Bible Verses On How to Find A Husband
1. Proverbs 3:5-6
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.”
2. Psalm 37:4
“Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.”
3. Proverbs 31:10
“A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.”
4. 1 Corinthians 13:4-5
“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking.”
5. Song of Solomon 2:7
“Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires.”
6. 1 Peter 3:3-4
“Your beauty should not come from outward adornment… Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit.”
7. Ruth 3:11
“All the people of my town know that you are a woman of noble character.”
8. Genesis 2:18
“It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.”
9. Ecclesiastes 3:1
“There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.”
10. Proverbs 19:14
“Houses and wealth are inherited from parents, but a prudent wife is from the Lord.”
11. Matthew 6:33
“But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.”
12. Isaiah 34:16
“None of these will be missing, not one will lack her mate. For it is his mouth that has given the order, and his Spirit will gather them together.”
13. Colossians 3:12-14
“Clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience… And over all these virtues put on love.”
14. Psalm 27:14
“Wait for the Lord; be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord.”
15. Proverbs 18:22
“He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord.”
16. 1 Samuel 16:7
“The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”
17. Philippians 4:6
“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.”
18. 2 Corinthians 6:14
“Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common?”
19. Song of Solomon 8:4
“Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires.”
20. Genesis 24:12-14
“Lord… give me success today, and show kindness to my master Abraham.”
21. Romans 12:9-10
“Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in love.”
22. Ephesians 5:25
“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.”
23. Hebrews 10:36
“You need to persevere so that when you have done the will of God, you will receive what he has promised.”
24. Psalm 84:11
“No good thing does he withhold from those whose walk is blameless.”
25. Jeremiah 29:11
“For I know the plans I have for you… plans to give you hope and a future.”
26. 1 Corinthians 15:33
“Do not be misled: ‘Bad company corrupts good character.'”
27. James 1:5
“If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God… and it will be given to you.”
28. Proverbs 4:23
“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”
29. 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18
“Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances.”
30. 1 Timothy 4:12
“Set an example for the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith and in purity.”
31. Romans 8:28
“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him.”
32. Isaiah 55:8-9
“For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,” declares the Lord.
33. Galatians 6:9
“Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.”
34. Psalm 46:10
“Be still, and know that I am God.”
Our Thoughts On What The Bible Says About How to Find A Husband
Finding a husband according to the Word of God isn’t a game of trial and error—it’s a process of becoming who you’re called to be while trusting God to bring the right person at the right time.
Scripture makes it clear that God honors patience, purity, prayer, and purpose.
He’s not just interested in giving you a man—He wants to give you a partner who reflects His heart and helps fulfill your destiny.
A godly relationship begins with a godly foundation.
The more you become rooted in Christ, the more you’ll be able to discern who truly belongs in your life.
Waiting doesn’t mean inactivity; it means preparation.
Let your season of singleness be a time of growth, joy, and intimacy with God.
When the time is right, He will write a love story far better than anything you could script yourself.
Say This Prayer
Lord, I trust You with my heart and my future.
Help me to grow in grace, wisdom, and love as I wait for the man You have prepared for me.
Keep my heart pure, my vision clear, and my steps aligned with Your will.
Teach me to be patient and to delight in You above all else.
When the time is right, bring the right person into my life—a man who honors You and leads with integrity.
Until then, mold me into the woman You’ve called me to be. In Jesus’ name, Amen.