In a world where bullying is all too common, whether it’s verbal, emotional, or even physical, it’s easy to feel like there’s no escape.
Bullies often use their words or actions to tear down others, creating an atmosphere of fear, insecurity, and shame. But as believers, we’re called to respond to bullying differently.
The Bible doesn’t promise that we won’t face these challenges, but it offers us guidance on how to handle situations where we are being oppressed or mistreated.
Rather than responding with anger or revenge, we are urged to turn to God, trust His justice, and respond with love and compassion.
These 35 Bible verses will remind you of your worth, encourage you to seek God’s strength, and help you understand how to handle bullies in a way that honors God and brings peace into your life.
Bible Verses About Bullies
1. Matthew 5:44 – Love Your Enemies
“But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.”
This verse teaches us to respond to bullies with love. Jesus calls us to love even those who mistreat us, reflecting His love for all people.
Loving bullies isn’t about ignoring their actions but responding to them with kindness. This approach disarms hostility and shows God’s love in action.
While it’s difficult to love those who harm us, doing so allows God to work in their hearts and brings peace into our own hearts.
2. Romans 12:14 – Bless Those Who Persecute You
“Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse.”
Paul instructs us not to retaliate when we are persecuted. Instead, we are to bless those who hurt us, which honors God and promotes healing.
Responding with blessings, rather than cursing, counters the cycle of negativity. It demonstrates that we trust God to handle justice, not us.
This passage challenges us to break the pattern of retaliation. Rather than returning harm for harm, we’re called to be agents of peace and reconciliation.
3. 1 Peter 3:9 – Do Not Repay Evil with Evil
“Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult. On the contrary, repay evil with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing.”
Peter encourages us to reject the temptation of returning evil for evil. Instead, we are to bless those who hurt us, showing them the grace we’ve received from God.
Revenge often escalates conflict, but responding with a blessing brings peace. By doing so, we demonstrate God’s love and give Him room to work in our situation.
This verse challenges us to shift our perspective. Are we focusing on justice for ourselves, or are we seeking to reflect God’s grace and mercy in our actions?
4. Matthew 5:10 – Blessed Are Those Who Are Persecuted
“Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.”
Jesus tells us that persecution for righteousness’ sake is a form of blessing. Though we may suffer from bullies, God’s reward is far greater than earthly pain.
Persecution can be hard, but it refines our faith. God sees the struggles we endure and promises us eternal rewards for standing firm in righteousness.
This verse challenges us to endure mistreatment with hope. When we are persecuted for doing what is right, we can trust that God is honoring our faithfulness.
5. 2 Timothy 3:12 – All Who Live Godly Will Be Persecuted
“In fact, everyone who wants to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted.”
Paul reminds us that persecution, including bullying, is a part of living a godly life. Following Christ may invite opposition, but it also brings eternal rewards.
This verse prepares us for the reality of bullying. When we live according to God’s word, we may face opposition, but we are not alone in our struggles.
It challenges us to stay strong in our faith. Persecution is inevitable, but God promises to be with us, giving us the strength to persevere.
6. Proverbs 12:18 – The Power of Words
“The words of the reckless pierce like swords, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.”
This verse highlights the power of words. Bullies often use their words to harm, but we are called to speak with wisdom and bring healing rather than hurt.
Words can build up or tear down, and as followers of Christ, we are called to use our speech to encourage and bring peace, even in the face of bullying.
This passage challenges us to use our words wisely. When facing bullies, we can either respond in anger or use our words to bring healing and grace.
7. Luke 6:28 – Bless Those Who Curse You
“Bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you.”
In this verse, Jesus calls us to bless those who mistreat us. Rather than reacting in anger, we are encouraged to pray for those who harm us.
Praying for bullies doesn’t mean we excuse their behavior, but it aligns our hearts with God’s will. Prayer opens the door for God to work in both our lives and theirs.
This verse challenges us to pray for our enemies. Are we seeking revenge, or are we trusting God to change hearts and bring about healing?
8. Romans 8:37 – We Are More Than Conquerors
“No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us.”
Even when we face bullying or persecution, we are more than conquerors through Christ. His love gives us the victory, even in the toughest of circumstances.
This verse reminds us that our victory doesn’t depend on our circumstances. We are victorious because Christ has already overcome the world, and we share in that victory.
This passage challenges us to find our identity in Christ. No matter how we’re treated by others, we are secure in His love and empowered to overcome any challenge.
9. Proverbs 16:7 – When a Man’s Ways Please the Lord
“When the Lord takes pleasure in anyone’s way, he causes their enemies to make peace with them.”
This verse assures us that when we live according to God’s will, He works in our lives to bring peace, even to those who oppose us.
Living a righteous life brings peace, even with those who persecute us. God can soften hearts and turn enemies into friends when we walk in His ways.
This passage challenges us to focus on living rightly. Are we living in a way that pleases God, trusting that He will bring peace to those who oppose us?
10. Isaiah 54:17 – No Weapon Formed Against You Will Prosper
“No weapon forged against you will prevail, and you will refute every tongue that accuses you. This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord, and this is their vindication from me,” declares the Lord.
God promises protection from the attacks of bullies. No weapon, whether physical or verbal, will prosper against us when we are in His care.
This verse reassures us of God’s protection. Bullies may try to harm us, but God’s power is greater, and He will defend us and give us the strength to endure.
This passage challenges us to trust in God’s protection. When we face opposition, we can be confident that God is our defender and that no harm will ultimately prevail against us.
11. Proverbs 29:11 – The Wise Man Controls His Anger
“Fools give full vent to their rage, but the wise bring calm in the end.”
When faced with bullying, this verse reminds us to control our anger. Wise people don’t react impulsively but choose to respond with calm and wisdom.
Reacting in anger to bullies only escalates the situation. Instead, we are called to respond with self-control, bringing peace rather than further conflict.
This passage challenges us to handle conflict wisely. Are we allowing bullies to control our emotions, or are we trusting God to give us the wisdom to respond with calm?
12. Psalm 34:19 – The Lord is Near to the Brokenhearted
“The righteous person may have many troubles, but the Lord delivers him from them all.”
This verse comforts us in the face of bullying. Though we may face many struggles, including persecution, God promises to deliver us and be near to us in our pain.
God is especially close to the brokenhearted. When we are mistreated, He is there to heal our wounds and offer His comfort, never leaving us in our suffering.
This passage challenges us to trust in God’s presence. Are we relying on His comfort when we are hurt, or are we trying to handle our struggles on our own?
13. 1 Thessalonians 5:15 – Always Pursue What is Good
“Make sure that nobody pays back wrong for wrong, but always strive to do what is good for each other and for everyone else.”
In the face of bullying, we are instructed to avoid retaliation. Instead of seeking revenge, we are called to pursue what is good and seek peace in every situation.
This verse teaches that we should not be driven by the desire for retribution. God calls us to rise above the hurt and act in kindness, even toward those who harm us.
This passage challenges us to reflect God’s character. Are we seeking to do good, even when we are wronged, or are we focused on paying back those who hurt us?
14. Psalm 37:1-2 – Do Not Fret Over Evil Doers
“Do not fret because of those who are evil or be envious of those who do wrong; for like the grass they will soon wither, like green plants they will soon die away.”
When bullies harm us, we are reminded not to fret over their actions. Their influence is temporary, but God’s justice and righteousness will prevail in the end.
Evil may seem powerful, but it’s fleeting. This verse encourages us to focus on God’s righteousness and not be discouraged by the actions of those who do wrong.
This passage challenges us to trust in God’s timing. Are we allowing bullies to cause us anxiety, or are we trusting God to take care of them in His perfect timing?
15. Romans 8:31 – God is For Us
“What, then, shall we say in response to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us?”
God’s favor is greater than any opposition we face. This verse assures us that, no matter the bullies or obstacles in our way, God is on our side.
When we are mistreated, we can be confident that God’s power is greater than the opposition. We are never alone, and He will fight for us.
This passage challenges us to stand firm in God’s protection. Are we trusting in God’s power and favor, or are we allowing fear of bullies to cloud our confidence in His promises?
16. Proverbs 22:24-25 – Avoiding Anger and Conflict
“Do not make friends with a hot-tempered person, do not associate with one easily angered, or you may learn their ways and get yourself ensnared.”
This verse warns us against surrounding ourselves with those who are quick to anger, such as bullies. Their influence can lead us to unhealthy patterns of behavior.
When we engage with hot-tempered people, we risk adopting their behavior. Choosing our associations wisely is important to avoid falling into the same harmful habits.
This passage challenges us to assess our relationships. Are we allowing bullies or angry people to influence us, or are we choosing peace and a wise company that leads to growth?
17. Luke 6:27-28 – Responding with Love and Blessings
“But to you who are listening I say: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you.”
Jesus calls us to radical love. Rather than reacting to bullies with anger or retaliation, we are to love them, pray for them, and wish them well.
Loving bullies may seem impossible, but Jesus shows us that love is a powerful tool for transformation. Blessing those who hurt us can break the cycle of hate.
This passage challenges us to love in a way that reflects God’s character. Are we willing to show love and grace even to those who mistreat us, trusting God to bring healing?
18. Psalm 23:5 – God Prepares a Table in the Presence of Our Enemies
“You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.”
This verse speaks of God’s protection and provision, even in the midst of opposition. While bullies may try to harm us, God prepares blessings and protection for us.
God’s favor and blessings are not determined by the actions of others. Even in the presence of enemies, He will provide for us and help us thrive in His care.
This passage challenges us to focus on God’s provision. Are we trusting in His ability to care for us, or are we consumed by the actions of those who try to harm us?
19. Proverbs 15:1 – A Gentle Answer Turns Away Wrath
“A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”
This verse teaches us how to respond to bullying. Instead of reacting with harsh words, we are called to respond gently, which can de-escalate tension and conflict.
The way we respond to bullies can either fuel or calm the situation. Choosing a gentle, measured response reflects the peace of God and helps defuse anger.
This passage challenges us to control our words. Are we responding to bullies with anger and harshness, or are we using a gentle answer to bring peace and calm?
20. Romans 12:21 – Overcoming Evil with Good
“Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.”
Paul teaches us that we don’t have to be overcome by bullies or evil actions. Instead of responding in kind, we are called to overcome evil by doing good.
Goodness has the power to overcome harm. When we respond to bullies with kindness, we show that God’s love is greater than their actions, and we reflect His character.
This passage challenges us to respond with goodness. Are we letting the actions of others determine our behavior, or are we choosing to act in a way that honors God, no matter the situation?
21. James 1:19 – Quick to Listen, Slow to Speak
“My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.”
In the face of bullying, it’s important to listen carefully and control our reactions. This verse teaches us to be patient and thoughtful in how we respond.
Listening helps us understand the situation better before reacting. By controlling our speech and emotions, we avoid escalating the conflict and reflect Christ’s wisdom in our responses.
This passage challenges us to respond wisely. Are we quick to listen and slow to react, or do we let our anger get the best of us when we face opposition or bullying?
22. Proverbs 19:11 – The Wisdom of Patience
“A person’s wisdom yields patience; it is to one’s glory to overlook an offense.”
When facing bullies, patience is key. This verse teaches that wisdom gives us the ability to overlook offenses, helping us rise above the negativity and maintain peace.
Overlooking an offense doesn’t mean ignoring it, but choosing not to let it control us. By exercising patience, we demonstrate maturity and self-control in the face of hurtful behavior.
This passage challenges us to exercise wisdom. Are we quick to take offense, or are we choosing to be patient and overlook the wrongs done to us, trusting God for justice?
23. Psalm 34:18 – The Lord is Close to the Brokenhearted
“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”
When we face bullying or mistreatment, God is near to us. This verse assures us that He is close to those who are hurt and will provide comfort and healing.
God’s presence is especially near in our pain. When we feel brokenhearted, He offers healing, encouragement, and the strength to endure, knowing that He is with us.
This passage challenges us to rely on God’s closeness. Are we turning to Him for comfort in our struggles, or are we allowing the pain of bullying to overwhelm us?
24. 1 Peter 3:15 – Always Be Prepared to Defend Your Hope
“But in your hearts revere Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect.”
While bullies may challenge our beliefs and actions, we are called to defend our faith with gentleness and respect. Our response should always be rooted in Christ-like humility.
Defending our hope doesn’t mean fighting back with anger but sharing why we have hope in Christ. When we do so with respect, we give witness to God’s love in our lives.
This passage challenges us to approach conflict with wisdom. Are we prepared to respond to bullies with humility and gentleness, showing them the hope we have in Christ?
25. 2 Timothy 4:3-5 – Endure and Stay Faithful
“For the time will come when people will not put up with sound doctrine. Instead, to suit their own desires, they will gather around them a great number of teachers to say what their itching ears want to hear. They will turn their ears away from the truth and turn aside to myths. But you, keep your head in all situations, endure hardship, do the work of an evangelist, discharge all the duties of your ministry.”
Timothy is encouraged to remain faithful, even when others oppose him. When faced with bullies or opposition, we must stay true to God’s word and continue our work with perseverance.
Even when people mock or mistreat us, we are called to remain steadfast and faithful to our calling. The truth of God’s Word is our foundation and our defense.
This passage challenges us to persevere. Are we standing firm in our faith when bullies oppose us, or are we letting their words sway us away from truth and obedience to God?
26. 1 Thessalonians 5:14 – Help the Weak and Be Patient
“And we urge you, brothers and sisters, warn those who are idle and disruptive, encourage the disheartened, help the weak, be patient with everyone.”
This verse calls us to be patient with those who may be weak or struggling. When we face bullies, we are called to be patient and loving, even with those who are difficult.
Bullies often act out of their pain or weakness. By showing patience, we create an opportunity to encourage and lift those who are struggling, demonstrating Christ-like compassion.
This passage challenges us to be patient with others. Are we quick to condemn bullies, or are we offering grace and understanding, knowing that their actions may be driven by deeper issues?
27. 1 Corinthians 10:13 – God Will Provide a Way Out
“No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it.”
When facing bullying or mistreatment, this verse reassures us that God will not allow us to be overwhelmed. He will provide strength and a way out when we trust in Him.
God’s faithfulness ensures that we can endure trials. Even when it feels like we can’t take anymore, He will always make a way for us to overcome the situation.
This passage challenges us to rely on God’s strength. Are we looking for God’s way out when facing bullying, or are we trying to handle it on our own?
28. 1 Peter 4:14 – Rejoice in Suffering for Christ
“If you are insulted because of the name of Christ, you are blessed, for the Spirit of glory and of God rests on you.”
This verse tells us that when we are persecuted or insulted because of our faith, we are blessed. Our suffering for Christ’s sake brings honor and invites His presence.
Persecution is a form of participation in Christ’s sufferings. When we endure mistreatment for His sake, we become more closely aligned with Him, receiving His strength and glory.
This passage challenges us to view suffering differently. Are we willing to endure bullying and insults for Christ’s sake, knowing that our reward is great in heaven?
29. Psalm 37:7 – Be Still Before the Lord
“Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him; do not fret when people succeed in their ways, when they carry out their wicked schemes.”
This verse encourages us to remain calm and trust in God when bullies succeed or prosper. We are not called to fret or react in fear, but to wait on God’s timing.
God sees the plans of the wicked and will act in His time. While we may face mistreatment, we are called to trust in God’s ultimate justice and remain faithful.
This passage challenges us to trust in God’s timing. Are we waiting patiently for God to act, or are we allowing the actions of bullies to disturb our peace?
30. 1 John 4:18 – Perfect Love Drives Out Fear
“There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.”
When we face bullying or fear, God’s perfect love gives us courage. We don’t need to be afraid of mistreatment, because His love protects and strengthens us.
Fear can paralyze us, but God’s love empowers us. When we trust in His love, we can face bullies and challenges with confidence, knowing that He is with us.
This passage challenges us to live in God’s love. Are we allowing fear to control us when facing bullies, or are we trusting in God’s love to drive out fear and give us strength?
31. 2 Corinthians 4:8-9 – We Are Not Abandoned
“We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed.”
Paul reminds us that, though we may face hardship and opposition, we are never abandoned by God. He is with us in every trial, offering strength and support.
This verse teaches that our struggles are not the end. Even when we face mistreatment, God is always with us, sustaining us and ensuring that we will overcome.
This passage challenges us to endure with hope. Are we trusting that God is with us in our struggles, or are we feeling abandoned and hopeless in the face of bullying?
32. Isaiah 41:10 – God’s Strength and Protection
“So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”
God promises His presence, strength, and help when we face difficulties. This verse reassures us that we don’t have to fear bullies because God is our protector.
God’s righteous right-hand holds us securely. No matter how strong the opposition is, He promises to sustain us and give us the strength to endure and overcome.
This passage challenges us to trust in God’s protection. Are we relying on His strength to face bullies, or are we allowing fear to overwhelm us?
33. Matthew 10:28 – Do Not Fear Those Who Kill the Body
“Do not be afraid of those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul. Rather, be afraid of the One who can destroy both soul and body in hell.”
This verse calls us to fear God, not the bullies who may harm us. While our bodies may suffer, our souls are secure in God’s hands, and He is our ultimate judge.
Bullies can harm us physically, but they cannot touch our souls. God is the One who holds eternal power, and we are safe in His care.
This passage challenges us to fear God above all. Are we letting the threats of bullies control us, or are we choosing to stand firm in the knowledge that our souls belong to God?
34. Psalm 118:6 – The Lord is My Helper
“The Lord is with me; I will not be afraid. What can mere mortals do to me?”
In the face of bullying, we are reminded that God is with us. We need not fear the actions of others because He is our protector and helper.
This verse teaches that human threats are powerless against God’s protection. When we trust in Him, we can face opposition without fear, knowing He will uphold us.
This passage challenges us to trust in God’s protection. Are we fearing the actions of others, or are we choosing to rely on God’s presence and help?
35. 2 Corinthians 12:9 – God’s Grace is Sufficient
“But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me.”
In our weakness, God’s grace is sufficient. When bullies attack, we can rely on God’s grace to sustain us and give us strength, showing His power through our struggles.
God’s grace is all we need to endure hardship. When we are weak, His strength is made perfect in us, and we are able to stand firm in His power.
This passage challenges us to embrace God’s grace. Are we relying on His strength to face bullies, or are we trying to handle everything in our power?
Our Thoughts On What The Bible Says About Bullies
The Bible provides powerful guidance on how to respond to bullies and oppression.
While bullies may hurt us through words or actions, God assures us that He is our defender, our protector, and our strength.
We are called to respond with love, forgiveness, and patience, demonstrating the heart of Christ in the face of mistreatment.
Instead of retaliation or bitterness, we are encouraged to trust God’s justice and to remember that our reward is eternal.
The Bible teaches that God is always near the brokenhearted, and He promises to deliver us from our troubles.
Accountability, humility, and prayer are our tools in dealing with bullies, and when we live out these principles, we honor God and bring peace to our lives.
Say This Prayer
Heavenly Father, thank You for Your promise of protection and justice. When I face bullying or mistreatment, help me to respond with love and grace.
Strengthen me to trust in Your justice and to remain calm, even in the face of adversity. May I never repay evil with evil, but always pursue what is good and pleasing to You.
I ask for Your comfort when I am hurt, and for Your wisdom to navigate difficult situations.
Help me to reflect Your heart of mercy and peace, showing others the love and forgiveness You have shown me. In Jesus’ name, Amen.