In today’s world, romantic relationships often begin with butterflies and excitement, but without a strong foundation, they can easily drift into confusion, heartbreak, or compromise.
That’s why grounding your relationship in God’s Word is not just important—it’s essential.
Whether you’re dating, courting, or discerning God’s will for your future, Scripture gives us wisdom, direction, and encouragement.
A God-honoring relationship doesn’t start with physical attraction or chemistry.
It begins with two people who are committed to growing in faith, integrity, and love—God’s kind of love.
The Bible speaks directly and indirectly about how couples should treat each other, what it means to love sacrificially, and how to walk in purity and honor.
These 33 verses are handpicked to help boyfriends and girlfriends invite God into their relationship and grow together in His truth.
Bible Verses for Boyfriend and Girlfriend
1. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud…”
2. Ecclesiastes 4:9-10
“Two are better than one… If either of them falls down, one can help the other up.”
3. Proverbs 3:5-6
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding…”
4. Song of Songs 8:7
“Many waters cannot quench love; rivers cannot sweep it away.”
5. Colossians 3:14
“And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.”
6. Philippians 2:3-4
“Do nothing out of selfish ambition… but in humility value others above yourselves.”
7. Genesis 2:18
“It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.”
8. 1 John 4:19
“We love because he first loved us.”
9. Romans 12:10
“Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.”
10. Ephesians 4:2-3
“Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.”
11. Song of Songs 2:16
“My beloved is mine and I am his…”
12. 1 Thessalonians 5:11
“Encourage one another and build each other up…”
13. Hebrews 10:24
“Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds.”
14. Proverbs 19:14
“A prudent wife is from the Lord.”
15. 2 Timothy 2:22
“Flee the evil desires of youth and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace…”
16. Ephesians 5:1-2
“Follow God’s example… and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us…”
17. Proverbs 17:17
“A friend loves at all times…”
18. Matthew 19:6
“What God has joined together, let no one separate.”
19. Romans 15:5-6
“May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you the same attitude of mind toward each other…”
20. 1 Peter 4:8
“Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.”
21. Amos 3:3
“Do two walk together unless they have agreed to do so?”
22. Galatians 5:22-23
“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness…”
23. 1 Corinthians 16:14
“Do everything in love.”
24. Psalm 37:4
“Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.”
25. 1 Timothy 4:12
“Set an example for the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith and in purity.”
26. Ephesians 5:33
“Each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.”
27. Isaiah 62:5
“As a bridegroom rejoices over his bride, so will your God rejoice over you.”
28. Ruth 1:16
“Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay…”
29. Matthew 22:37-39
“Love the Lord your God with all your heart… and love your neighbor as yourself.”
30. Proverbs 31:10
“A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.”
31. Psalm 85:10
“Love and faithfulness meet together; righteousness and peace kiss each other.”
32. Romans 13:10
“Love does no harm to a neighbor. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.”
33. James 1:5
“If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God… and it will be given to you.”
Our Thoughts On What The Bible Says About Boyfriend and Girlfriend Relationships
The Bible may not use the modern term “boyfriend and girlfriend,” but it absolutely speaks to the heart of what a God-honoring romantic relationship looks like.
It’s less about labels and more about love that reflects the heart of Christ—a love that is kind, patient, pure, and enduring.
Scripture teaches us to build our relationships on trust, mutual respect, encouragement, and spiritual growth.
When God is at the center, dating becomes more than just a season—it becomes preparation for something sacred.
God’s desire is not just for you to be happy, but for you to be whole, aligned with His purpose.
And that includes your romantic life.
The verses above remind us that godly love involves sacrifice, patience, and choosing one another daily, even when feelings fade.
Let His Word be your standard, not culture or convenience.
Say This Prayer
Lord, thank You for the gift of love and companionship.
I surrender my relationship into Your hands.
Teach us to love each other the way You love us—with patience, kindness, and humility.
May we grow together in faith, honor one another, and put You first in all things.
Help us walk in purity, truth, and purpose.
Guard our hearts, guide our steps, and lead us according to Your will.
We trust You with our future, and we invite You into our present. In Jesus’ name, Amen.